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Glossary

48 terms the book uses on their own footing, each linking back to where it is actually explained.

abhyāsaYoga

Practice: steady, repeated, patient effort kept up over a long time, the doing side of yoga.

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adiaphoraStoicism

Things outside your own judgments and choices, health, money, reputation, that are neither good nor evil, only reasonably preferred or avoided.

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anattaBuddhism

Not-self: the observation that no part of what you call yourself is reliably under your command or lasting, not a flat claim that there is no you.

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aniccaBuddhism

Impermanence: the first of the three marks, the fact that nothing conditioned stays.

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apatheiaStoicism

Freedom from the passions, the disturbances of excessive desire, fear, grief, and pleasure. Not an absence of feeling, but the absence of tumultuous feeling.

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aponiaEpicureanism

Freedom from bodily pain, the other half of Epicurus's idea of pleasure alongside ataraxia.

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aṣṭāṅgaYoga

The eight limbs of Patañjali's path, from ethical conduct through posture, breath, and concentration to absorption.

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ataraxiaEpicureanism

An untroubled mind, free of disturbance. For Epicurus, the summit of a pleasant life.

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autarkeiaEpicureanism

Self-sufficiency: wanting little enough that what you already have is enough.

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cittaYoga

The mind, taken broadly: the intellect, the ego, the part that processes what the senses bring in.

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defusionThe Clinical Methods

Changing your relationship to a thought so it carries less weight, without touching its content or arguing about whether it is true.

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dhikrThe Contemplative Religions

Remembrance: the Sufi practice of repeating a name or phrase of God.

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dukkhaBuddhism

Usually translated suffering, closer to unsatisfactoriness: the way conditioned things cannot finally hold the weight we put on them.

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fascinationThe Transcendentalists

In Attention Restoration Theory, what catches attention without effort. Soft fascination (clouds, water, light) rests the effortful faculty; hard fascination (a fight, a screen) does not.

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fikaDesign Vocabulary

A Swedish coffee pause taken with someone else, a break made into a small shared ritual.

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forest bathingThe Transcendentalists

The Japanese practice of slow, sensory time among trees, named by the country's forestry agency in 1982.

also: shinrin-yokuread in context →

hesychiaThe Contemplative Religions

A Greek word for stillness: not an empty room but a settled, attentive, present inner quiet, the goal of the hesychast tradition.

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hishtavutThe Contemplative Religions

Equanimity understood as a genuine indifference to praise and blame, from the Kabbalistic and Hasidic literature.

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hitbodedutThe Contemplative Religions

Secluded, spontaneous prayer, spoken aloud in your own words, as taught by Rebbe Nachman of Breslov.

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hyggeDesign Vocabulary

A Danish word for warm, sensory, social coziness. Not moderation, atmosphere.

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jhānaBuddhism

A series of progressively deeper states of meditative concentration, each shedding a coarser mental factor.

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kaivalyaYoga

Aloneness: the seer resting in its own nature once even the subtlest fluctuation has stilled, Patañjali's final goal, one step past samadhi.

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kōanZen

A paradoxical question or story used in Rinzai Zen to exhaust conceptual thinking and provoke direct insight.

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lagomDesign Vocabulary

A Swedish word meaning just the right amount, not too much and not too little.

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maZen

The charged, meaningful interval, in space or time: the gap that gives what surrounds it its shape.

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Rest of the soul: a Mussar virtue, a settled center that meets the day's ups and downs without being thrown by them.

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mettāBuddhism

Lovingkindness: a deliberate, cultivated, unconditional good will, widened until it leaves no one out.

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mushinZen

No-mind: a state of acting without the interference of a separate, deliberating self.

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niksenDesign Vocabulary

A Dutch verb meaning to do nothing, to loaf, lifted lately into the idea of doing nothing on purpose.

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nirodhaYoga

A settling, a quieting: the calming of the mind's churn, not its destruction.

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phantasiaStoicism

The initial impression an event makes on the mind, before any judgment is added to it.

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premeditatio malorumStoicism

The premeditation of adversity: deliberately imagining a loss in advance so it cannot ambush you.

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sakinaThe Contemplative Religions

A tranquility that, the Qur'an says, God sends down into the hearts of believers. Not generated by striving, but given.

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samādhiYoga

Absorption so complete that the sense of a separate watcher drops away; the eighth limb.

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samathaBuddhism

The cultivation of a mind that can rest, steady and unhurried, on one thing.

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shikantazaZen

Just sitting: a Soto Zen practice of sitting with no object of focus and nothing to attain.

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shoshinZen

Beginner's mind: approaching something familiar as though encountering it for the first time.

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telosStoicism

The end or goal a life aims at. For the Stoics, virtue itself, with tranquility as a byproduct, not the target.

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tetrapharmakosEpicureanism

Epicurus's four-line summary of the whole philosophy: don't fear god, don't worry about death, what is good is easy to get, what is terrible is easy to endure.

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upekkhāBuddhism

Equanimity: the still quality that remains once the second arrow is set down, distinct from both indifference and numbness.

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vairāgyaYoga

Non-attachment: loosening the grip of craving and releasing your claim on how things turn out, abhyāsa's paired opposite.

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vedanāBuddhism

The raw felt tone of an experience, pleasant, painful, or neutral, that arrives before any reaction is added.

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vipassanāBuddhism

Insight: the clear seeing of how experience actually behaves, samatha's partner practice.

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wabi-sabiDesign Vocabulary

The Japanese acceptance of things imperfect, worn, and passing.

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wu weiTaoism

Non-forcing, effortless action: not the absence of action but the absence of strain.

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ziranTaoism

Self-so: the naturalness of a thing simply following its own grain, with no separate self straining against it.

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